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Thu, 22 Nov 2018 06:26:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 en hourly 1 Online Dating - How to Avoid Disasters http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-how-to-avoid-disasters/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-how-to-avoid-disasters/#comments Thu, 22 Nov 2018 06:09:00 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=56 dating profile has been tailor made to fit into your requirements. He pretends that he is just the guy for you and makes you believe that you will get on really well. This leads to online chatting and then talking on the phone. So far so good.]]> It is not uncommon to have gone through the experience of a couple of bad dates in a lifetime. Regardless of how it happened, you may find yourself matched with a real creep - kind that fumbles and fidgets throughout the evening and then announces that he has forgotten to bring his wallet or credit card. The result is that you have ruined an evening and paid for the entertainment and food, and felt foolish at the end of it. Beware of meeting the same kind online. This is how it happens.

Presenting False Profiles: The guy reads your profile on the dating services and comes up with a matching profile to entice you. The person may be far from what he claims to be because he is out to take advantage of your good nature.

In your innocence you fall into his trap not knowing that his dating profile has been tailor made to fit into your requirements. He pretends that he is just the guy for you and makes you believe that you will get on really well. This leads to online chatting and then talking on the phone. So far so good.

In the first meeting, you take all the precautions and meet at a coffee shop. After a charming conversation, you realise that he has forgotten his wallet at home. You pay the bill but don’t mind very much as you have had a good time.

Next time you meet at an expensive place and talk to him more freely. You feel confident enough to tell him more about your home and family.

This time he has his credit card but the company denies it, and once again, you foot the bill. You tell him that you have no inclination to meet him again. The first thing you do at home is change your e mail online dating address. You feel safe.

Then one fine day you come home to see that someone has broken into your house. The police nab the thief who turns out to be no other than the guy you dated. He found you by your car. Such an experience would understandably make you want to stay away from online dating services. Your only option would be singles dating in person now!

Here are some tips to help you avoid disasters on an online date:

  1. Have a separate e-mail which can be deleted.
  2. Take the first clue and act upon it. If he forgets his wallet, just forget about him.
  3. Do not divulge personal information. Leave no hints that can help him find you.
  4. Do not take your car to the first meeting. Ask a friend to drop you off or take a cab.
  5. Do not give your phone number unless it is a prepaid cell.

This should be enough to save you from a disastrous online date. Once you have screened them well there is no need to be scared of online dating.

]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-how-to-avoid-disasters/feed/ Online Dating Safety Advice http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-safety-advice/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-safety-advice/#comments Thu, 28 May 2009 01:31:00 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=19 Online dating is a good way to meet new friends and maybe even a romantic interest for yourself.  Online you can get to know someone and see if you are compatible that way before actually meeting up. Once you are…

]]> Online dating is a good way to meet new friends and maybe even a romantic interest for yourself.  Online you can get to know someone and see if you are compatible that way before actually meeting up. Once you are comfortable with each other in an online situation then get a prepaid cell.

Why Prepaid? They don’t carry the addresses and name of who owns the phone. This way your home phone and actual address are safe from discovery should things not turn out well and you need to break off the friendship.

Don’t use your whole name, first name only. If you use a dating service, I recommend it there too that you make sure your real information is absolutely confidential and not given out unless you say it is ok. Most online dating sites are good about security but I feel it is a point not to be overlooked.

Dating Service Security

Many of the online services do not pre screen their clients so they are not liable for anyone you meet through their sites. Generally you will get the name of someone who you have looked at their profile, or they looked at yours.  Speaking of profiles - be as honest as you can, but no addresses and only a first name.

When you are meeting someone for the first few times you should only meet in a public place and stay  where there are plenty of people until you feel secure enough for more of a relationship.  Singles dating is great, online but caution is the best defence.

Online Dating for Seniors and Baby boomers

Singles dating for seniors and baby boomers is the same for the most part, but the reasons for dating may be different than they are the younger set.

Usually it is just social, looking for friends, nothing permanent. But that can change when people get to know each other. Older people who have been married and are divorced or widowed are by nature more cautious but should still use some of the general guidelines.

Single Parents and Online Dating

If you are at home with a pre school age child, or an at home single parent, chances are you have thought about checking out online dating services for yourself.  Dating isnít an easy feat when you have children at home too.  Your first priority is to your children and their safety and wellbeing.

There are a lot of people on the singles sites who are out there just to find a situation like that to exploit so, you as a parent have to be extra diligent in your choices. A dating site for singles with children would probably be a better stop for you than a regular dating service. You still have to be careful and pay attention to the safety aspect of your personal life though.

Donít tell the  people you meet online all about your home and children until you have a feel for the person.  Maybe even meet them  a couple times only letting them know that yes, you have a child or two but no more information than that.

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]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/online-dating-safety-advice/feed/ Fantasy to Reality: Adult Chat Rooms are the Way http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/fantasy-to-reality-adult-chat-rooms-are-the-way/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/fantasy-to-reality-adult-chat-rooms-are-the-way/#comments Wed, 27 May 2009 15:53:44 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=3 Hey, let’s chat!

Ever wanted to do something different, be something different, but were too afraid to try? Adult chat rooms can give you the chance to be that person you secretly see yourself as.

Ever hear of Walter Mitty? A literary…

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Ever wanted to do something different, be something different, but were too afraid to try? Adult chat rooms can give you the chance to be that person you secretly see yourself as.

Ever hear of Walter Mitty? A literary invention of author James Thurby – a meek, mild man with a vivid fantasy life: in a few dozen paragraphs he imagines himself a wartime pilot, an emergencyroom surgeon , and a devil-may-care killer.

Don’t be a Walter Mitty. Leap from fantasy to reality. Be bold, be confident, live your dreams. Take advantage of the opportunity offered by adult chat rooms to explore and live out your secret fantasies.

No matter what your secret interest or fantasy, there’s an adult chat room out there for you. Adult chat rooms give you the opportunity to find a community of like-minded individuals who share your deepest fantasies. There’s no judgement or rejection in an adult chat room – all are welcome to explore their desires.

There’s also none of the nagging self-esteem worries that may inhibit real world interaction in an adult chat room. You don’t have to worry about how you look or what you’re wearing. The people in the chat room only see what the words you weave create in their minds.

Be who you want to be. It’s as simple as getting online and logging on to an adult chat room. Online you don’t have to worry about other people think of you  its a lot easier to move to another chat room than it is to move to another town. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.

While taking the first step of logging on to an adult chat room can be intimidating, once you’ve done so, you’ll be surprised at how quickly you become comfortable with talking about the secret things you’ve always wanted to do. Feelings, emotions, desires – they all flow freely in the intimate rapport that can be easily built in an online adult chat room.

The best thing is that many adult chat rooms are free. Finding a free adult chat room is as easy as clicking your mouse.

So, now that you know about how you can let down your hair and live your wildest dreams, take advantage. Find a free adult chat room, log on, tune in and turn on.

]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/fantasy-to-reality-adult-chat-rooms-are-the-way/feed/ Know More about Online Dating Services http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/about-online-dating-services/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/about-online-dating-services/#comments Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:18:59 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=12 Whether you are looking for a way to meet people with a view to creating lasting relationships or just to spend some interesting and meaningful time, online dating is your best option. Gone are the days when online dating was looked…

]]> Whether you are looking for a way to meet people with a view to creating lasting relationships or just to spend some interesting and meaningful time, online dating is your best option. Gone are the days when online dating was looked at with suspicion because of its derogatory connotations of being the last resort for losers who couldn’t find a date in the real world. However, that notion is a thing of the past.

Instant and Effective

In the fast-paced life of people these days, it is no wonder that online dating has become so popular. Given that everyone is so busy they have very little time to socialize. And, that little time they would want to spend in the company of someone they can relate to, instead of wasting on the peripherals involved in real-world dating. Online dating offers the convenience of searching for that ideal someone even before you make introductions. All this groundwork is done by the dating site. All you have to do is to submit a personal profile of yourself to the dating site database. They will match your profile with other users within the same dating database, and inform both parties. Then, it is up to you to start a conversation.

The number of matches made on any dating site depends on the sex ratio, which is generally not perfectly balanced. For instance, there may be fifty-eight percent female members on a particular site as against forty-two percent male while on another site the reverse may be closer to the situation.

Choice of Online Dating Services

You can choose from two types of internet dating services: the “free” dating sites or the pay sites. Obviously, the first type is more popular because you don’t have to pay anything. You can join for free, but as they say, you don’t get something for nothing. Here, you will find the non-serious people who are just messing around to kill time. If you are serious about dating, it’s best to keep away from these free dating sites.

Worse still is the risk of interacting with subscribers who post false identities. The reason why you will face this problem is because these free sites often don’t verify the authenticity of a person’s identification. They don’t have inherent systems of checks and balances, which can easily be done by asking for a credit card. Another danger of these sites is that they attract children and teenagers because they are easily accessible.

Therefore, the best option would be to join a pay site. You pay for the service you receive. These types of dating sites verify the identities of all subscribers before posting their profile. You need to provide credit card information by which they check your identity. If you are serious about finding a relationship, you must go in for this type of dating site.

While choosing the online dating site, remember to ask them how frequently they update their database. You can do that through their “contact” email button. This is important because many online dating services don’t regularly update their databases, which means you might be trying to contact someone who has not logged on for a long time.

Beware of Chat Rooms

Many online dating services don’t have chat rooms, but they provide more effective services to facilitate actual dating. In a way it is better than chatting because chat rooms have no identification verification at all. However, if you enjoy chatting in chat rooms, don’t date someone from a chat room.

]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/about-online-dating-services/feed/ Chat Rooms: Have Fun, but Be Careful http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/chat-rooms-safety-tips/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/chat-rooms-safety-tips/#comments Sun, 22 Feb 2009 16:09:50 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=6 You go to chat rooms to meet new people, to share experiences, to live out fantasies and explore facets of yourself you didn’t know existed.

You don’t go to chat rooms to have your identity stolen.

Adult chat rooms allow you…

]]> You go to chat rooms to meet new people, to share experiences, to live out fantasies and explore facets of yourself you didn’t know existed.

You don’t go to chat rooms to have your identity stolen.

Adult chat rooms allow you to have a greatly expanded social and sexual life, and while this can lead to unforgettable friendships and experiences, it can also allow people who mean you harm to gain access to your most sensitive information.

The unfortunate reality of identity theft has resulted in all too many cases where people who have logged into an adult chat room to live a freer lifestyle have become the target of unscrupulous con men and flim-flam artists seeking an easy mark.

Chat rooms can be happy hunting grounds for hackers, seeking naive users with valuable information to lose. This type of fraud known as identity theft is becoming more common as Internet usage and availability increases. Hackers prey on chat room users, obtaining any sensitive personal information that they can. In turn, they may go to a Hacker chat room, using an internet relay chat that allows more anonymity, and try to sell the information to the highest bidder. All too many neophyte computer users have been taken to the cleaners by unscrupulous chat room hackers.

While many free adult chat rooms are on the up-and-up, there are others out there that act as nothing more than the lair for online trap-door spiders, shady individuals just waiting for someone to fall into their lair.

To avoid the potential dangers of an adult chat room, consider taking the following precautions.

  • Regularly update virus, spy ware, antispam and filtering protection.
  • Use a strong password for your online chat room user ID – a tough combo of upper and lower case letters, numbers and symbols can greatly increase the security of your user ID and protect any personal information you may have submitted to the site.  Laptops are big targets for the unscrupulous, so it is vitally important to use a tough-to-crack password on laptops.
  • Avoid using an automatic login feature on chat sites.
  • Thoroughly read website privacy policies to learn how your personal information is treated.

An adult chat room should be a place to go to let your hair down, drop your guard and be free of worry and care. Take the proper precautions beforehand, and they still can be.

]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/chat-rooms-safety-tips/feed/ A profile’s worth 1,000 words on adult chat sites http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/profile-worth-1000-words/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/profile-worth-1000-words/#comments Wed, 04 Feb 2009 06:28:44 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=32 Now that you’ve decided to venture forth into the exciting world of free adult chat rooms, you’re probably wondering how you can be one of the more sought-after chat partners on the sites.

The answer is simple: By posting an eye-catching,…

]]> Now that you’ve decided to venture forth into the exciting world of free adult chat rooms, you’re probably wondering how you can be one of the more sought-after chat partners on the sites.

The answer is simple: By posting an eye-catching, provocative profile to the adult chat site.

First impressions count when meeting someone in the real world, and the same holds equally, if not more, true in adult chat rooms. If you were meeting someone for the first time, you wouldn’t wear a ratty old T-shirt and dirty jeans, would you? Well, posting a lackluster profile is the chat room equivalent of showing up for a date looking like a scrub, and it will get you about the same results.

Jazz it up. When describing yourself, don’t just say “I like movies.” Be more descriptive. Share your deeper thoughts and feelings. Say something like, “My favorite movie is The Princess Bride, which blends subtle humor with deep heartfelt romance to make a touching, but funny film.”

Market yourself. Talk about the things your good at. Don’t dwell on your insecurities and failings and don’t whine about previous relationships. You don’t sell a car by talking about the engine rattle or the transmission trouble, and you don’t sell yourself in free adult chat rooms by talking about your shortcomings. Be cocky, be confident and be excellent, and you’ll be successful online in adult chat rooms.

Be flirty, but don’t be a perv. While adult chat rooms are known for steamy talk, you don’t want to launch directly into an immediate filibuster about what you and your buddy did with two girls and a donkey on spring break. Just post a little risque banter to your chat room profile to let folks know your open for business. Remember, you’ve got to get the fish to nibble the bait before you can hook them.

Posting a photo in the public gallery of the adult chat room is very important, because let’s face it, a picture really is always worth a thousand words. Visitors to adult chat rooms almost always want to see the man or woman behind the words. You don’t have to do it right away, but sooner or later you’ll have to bite the bullet and make the big reveal. Make sure the photo you post is recent, and portrays you in a favorable light. You don’t have to be dressed up in a tuxedo, but you don’t want to be wearing a Kenny Rogers t-shirt with sweat stains either.

Remember your profile in an adult chat room is that first glance across the bar or that chance encounter at the bookstore, only instead of real life, in an adult chat room you’re in control of what the other person sees. Use this to your advantage.

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]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/profile-worth-1000-words/feed/ Safety First on Dating Sites http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/safety-first-on-dating-sites/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/safety-first-on-dating-sites/#comments Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:28:06 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/?p=16 There is a new phenomenon that is sweeping the Internet world. It is the burgeoning popularity of Internet dating sites. Last month alone two and half million people went looking for love and friendship in cyber space dating sites from…

]]> There is a new phenomenon that is sweeping the Internet world. It is the burgeoning popularity of Internet dating sites. Last month alone two and half million people went looking for love and friendship in cyber space dating sites from all over America. It’s an armchair preoccupation that’s bringing joy to millions, but is not without it’s own peculiar pitfalls. Some basic precautions, if taken, will ensure the gain without the pain goes on.

Verification by the police

The dating site providers as a group are taking their responsibilities toward subscribers very seriously. ‘Profile verifying’ is the primary protection put in place to ensure the enjoyable experience of service users. In all areas of the human experience there are some unscrupulous individuals who seek to take advantage of others. They pretend to be someone other than who they really are. Verification methods aim to keep the frauds out of chat rooms.

By checking with credit card details the dating sites make sure the people they match together really are the people they say they are. For the user the advice is to make sure their chosen dating site does profile verification.

Reporting suspicious behaviour

The verification of online identity is keeping pace with the growing number of dating site users through the second line defence called ‘reporting’.  If a genuine love surfer spots suspicious behaviour it should be reported to the site controllers who can then track the suspect, build an evidence dossier and bring in the appropriate authorities to deal with the offender.

How to be safe while dating online

As well as reporting suspicious behaviour users should go silent. Cut off any interaction if you feel the person you have been matched with is in any way predatory.

Steady as you go at the outset of any relationship. Good advice in any partnership but especially so with ones begun online. Making inappropriate assumptions and going too quickly can get you hurt. If it’s love at last it last and there will be plenty of time to explore one another.

Guard your personal secrets, especially the financial ones, closely. Never divulge personal information to a person who has not proven him or herself to be worthy of your trust over time. If and when you feel preyed upon whilst online dating, cut off the interaction and report the suspect to your dating service host.

In the first giddy stages of an Internet relationship it can be hard to exercise common sense but gradual, incremental actions will safeguard your emotional wellbeing.

Also if you remain intrigued by a match made over the net after the first introduction you should, at the earliest opportunity, ask for a photo. It’s a test of how genuine a prospective lover is as well as a good stepping-stone to a face-to-face encounter. Refusal to give a photo should be a strong warning sign of insincerity at best.

It doesn’t matter if it’s the Internet or a singles bar the advice to love seekers in the early days of an interaction is to take your time, be careful, be guarded and be wise and above all be safe.

]]> http://www.pacificfriends.org/online-dating/safety-first-on-dating-sites/feed/ Posting Pictures to an Adult Chat Room http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/posting-pictures/ http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/posting-pictures/#comments Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:23:29 +0000 admin http://www.pacificfriends.org/chat-rooms/28/ Ready to drop the veil of anonymity and show the person you’ve been chatting with your true face?

Man does not live by text alone. Sooner or later the folks you’re talking to in an adult chat room are going to want…

]]> Ready to drop the veil of anonymity and show the person you’ve been chatting with your true face?

Man does not live by text alone. Sooner or later the folks you’re talking to in an adult chat room are going to want to see who they’ve been talking to.

Meeting people online through an adult chat room is fun, safe, intimidation‑free way for people to experience new things and try on a new persona. If you’re tired of the hum-drum everyday life
you lead, an online chat room can provide a great escape.

There are very few things as liberating as being able to slip free of the stifling shackles society imposes on our daily discourse by joining a steamy conversation online.

However, eventually you are going to meet someone special and want to take it to the next level. And if you’re ready to take a relationship you develop in adult chat room to the next level, the person you’re involved with is going to want to know what you look like.

Only you can be the judge of when the time is right to take things to the next level and let a person you met on an adult chat site get closer by giving them a good look-see. But if you are going to take that next step, here are a couple of suggestions for when you’re picking a photo:

  • Select a photo that’s appropriate for the context of your relationship with the folks on your adult chat site. Leather isn’t appropriate for all occasions, just some.
  • Don’t post a cell pic or a web cam pic. The quality on these tends to be low and they’re often unflattering. You don’t want to look like you’re posing for a driver’s license photo, do you?
  • Make sure you’re wearing up-to-date clothes and have a current hairstyle. That mullet was sweet in ‘83, but even Michael Bolton has lost his by now.
  • Don’t post a picture, if having that picture on an adult chat site will get you fired or cause other major complications. It just isn’t worth it.

Keep these maxims in mind and you’ll find that posting your picture to your adult chat site isn’t nearly as nerve-wracking as you think it is. Somebody out there is hot for you, why not find out who?

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